127 - Relationship Agreement Pitfalls

127 - Relationship Agreement Pitfalls

This week we're discussing agreement pitfalls -- common relationship agreements that seem reasonable, but which may cause trouble in the long run. The Multiamory crew has a pretty firm stance against strict rules in relationships, but there are many agreements that fall into a debatable grey area. Is it fair to make sure you and your partner conduct relationships in the exact same way? Is it ethical to ask a partner to check in with you before they get sexual on a date with someone else? Tune in to hear our thoughts on these questions and more.

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74 - Sex Positivity, Sex Negativity, Sex Neutrality

74 - Sex Positivity, Sex Negativity, Sex Neutrality

This week we are trying to pin down the slippery notion of sex positivity. Does it just mean the absence of sex negativity? Does it mean you have to be enthusiastic about all kinds of sex? What if you don't even have sex? We bandy about what "sex neutrality" might mean, as well as illuminate the ways that sex positive communities actually leverage sex negativity in order to escape stigma and seek more acceptance.

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51 - Making Safe Sex More Sexy

51 - Making Safe Sex More Sexy

It's time to get safe and sexy with the Multiamory crew! High school health class taught many of us all about the scary and gross parts of STIs, but is that the whole story? In this episode, we discuss facts about STI transmission and clear the air of a lot of the common misinformation and fear-mongering surrounding HPV and HSV. We also give tips on how to talk about safe sex boundaries before you have sex with someone in a way that isn't totally awkward or a mood-killer. With the right information, you can have sex that is both safe and fun -- having your sex cake and eating it too!

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49 - 8 Myths About Polyamory Busted!

49 - 8 Myths About Polyamory Busted!

This week we put on our Mythbusters hats and mustaches! More and more people are becoming aware of polyamorous lifestyles, but there's also a lot of misinformation and misconceptions floating around. Some are silly, some are strange, and some are straight up wrong. We tackle eight of these myths, covering sex and sexuality, jealousy, group relationships, and more.

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