Fortunately, there's no Polyamory Board of Directors who decides who makes the cut or not. However, that doesn't prevent many people from worrying about whether or not they can claim a polyamorous identity. On this episode, we discuss identity, gatekeeping, and common questions that we get: "Am I still polyamorous if I still feel jealousy?" "Am I still polyamorous if I only have one partner?" "Am I still polyamorous if I'm not dating at all?"

Has online dating ever made you want to tear your hair out? You're not alone.

Is it possible to repair a relationship after a major breach of trust?

The latest statistics and advice for long distance success.

Get a lasting self-esteem boost! (No participation trophies needed.)

Are your relationships a dumping ground for toxic waste?

Are your palms sweaty and your stomach butterfly...ish? You may be feeling New Relationship Energy (NRE)

When you start talking to people about non-traditional relationships, the reaction isn't always pretty.

Some people think polyamory can only function with a primary-secondary hierarchy. Others think it's a recipe for disaster.

No one wants a relationship full of drama...or do they?

This week we're talking about the best ways to reconnect with a partner after a separation, even when it doesn't feel easy.

Dr. Alex Bove shares his research on metamours and masculinity.

This week we're coming at ya live from our first ever patreon retreat in Lake Tahoe, CA!

What does it mean to have a relationship that feels "equal"?

Gamify your way to self-improvement and better relationships!

Dr. Kim Tallbear teaches us all about settler sexuality and modern approaches to creating kin and varied support networks.

It's a questions we've gotten since starting the podcast -- can mono/poly relationships work?

This week we talk about how anxiety shows up in our relationships, how to cope if you or your partner experience anxiety.

Boundaries are one of the most powerful yet misunderstood tools for having healthy relationships.

We’re talking about how the different parts of your brain affect how we relate to our partners.