598 - Over-Functioning in Relationships: Why Taking On More Makes It Worse
This week we're diving into over-functioning in relationships and how it can actually work against us. We'll be discussing some of the research available about group projects, how anxiety affects negotiation, and how accurately (or inaccurately) we tend to estimate our own contributions to a relationship.
As always, we'll go over some tips and tricks at the end to improve your relationships and work-life balance!
443 - Why Aren't You Being Fair? Exploring Aggressive Fairness in Polyamory
Today we're talking about aggressive fairness in non-monogamy. We all want equitable relationships, but in a relationship style as fluid as non-monogamy there is often more to consider than simple fairness. We'll be exploring what aggressive fairness means and looks like, discuss what fair means for a relationship (non-monogamous and monogamous), and talk about some helpful ways you can find solutions to the questions around equity and fairness.