93 - Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First

93 - Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First

At Multiamory, we generally discourage people from building their relationships on a basis of strict, primary-secondary hierarchy. However, primary-secondary relationships are still very common in the polyamorous community. All three of us have engaged in these kind of relationships at one point or another, for better or worse. In this episode, we talk about the experience of being a secondary partner, and we give our advice to secondaries for crafting relationships that will keep them safe, happy, and sane.

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48 - Adding a Third to Your Relationship

48 - Adding a Third to Your Relationship

It's 2016 and Multiamory is back!! In our first episode of the year, we cover an extremely hot and controversial topic: adding a third person to your relationship.  Many couples are introduced to polyamory by wanting to explore threesomes or triad relationships. In this episode, we cover how to avoid becoming "unicorn hunters," the fundamentals of having a healthy triad relationship, and a very important litmus test to determine whether you are ready to be in a triad or not.

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