124 - The Dating Advice Girl Talks Polyamory

124 - The Dating Advice Girl Talks Polyamory

This week we are welcoming special guest Erin Tillman, a.k.a. The Dating Advice Girl. Erin has coached many singles through the process of creating a dating profile and going on dates without getting burnt out in the process. Even better, Erin is tuned in to the polyamorous and queer communities. She shares with us her pro tips on messaging, first dates, and how much to disclose in your dating profile when you're seeking a non-traditional match (or two). 

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93 - Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First

93 - Being Secondary While Putting Yourself First

At Multiamory, we generally discourage people from building their relationships on a basis of strict, primary-secondary hierarchy. However, primary-secondary relationships are still very common in the polyamorous community. All three of us have engaged in these kind of relationships at one point or another, for better or worse. In this episode, we talk about the experience of being a secondary partner, and we give our advice to secondaries for crafting relationships that will keep them safe, happy, and sane.

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84 - Zen and the Art of First Dates

84 - Zen and the Art of First Dates

If you are new to poly or just opening up your relationship, you may come to a realization that is exciting for some and terrifying for others: time to go on first dates! Going on first dates when you're poly presents a whole host of unique benefits and challenges. In this episode, we lay out all the pros and cons of poly dating, as well as our most Zen advice for making each first date enjoyable and fulfilling, even if you don't feel that the chemistry is there.

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69 - How to Find Polyamorous Partners Offline

69 - How to Find Polyamorous Partners Offline

The Multiamory crew have often discussed strategies for finding dating partners through online dating. But what about finding partners in real-life? Can you find poly-friendly partners out at a bar? How do you flirt while also conveying important information about your lifestyle?

We give you a collection of our favorite tips for flirting while out and about, including the best ways to make connections at poly meetups and making agreements for wingman/wingwoman-ing for your partner. And exclusive for our Multiamory podcast listeners, we explain our individually patented flirting techniques: Jase's Conversational Gambit, Emily's Direct Declaration, and Dedeker Throws the Book at You.

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54 - Polyamory and Online Dating 101

54 - Polyamory and Online Dating 101

So if you're looking for a non-traditional relationship, how do you find partners? Most people turn to the world of online dating, which can be intimidating and frustrating. This week, we bring you advice on the best way to set up your profile to find other like-minded partners, how to communicate your desires for non-monogamy without turning off the person you're interested in, and how to send messages that are both honest and respectful.

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46 - Dancing with Myself

46 - Dancing with Myself

For those of you with your heads in the gutter, this episode of the Multiamory podcast is not about masturbation, but rather how to maintain a healthy polyamorous relationship with yourself.  We welcome back our good friends Brooke and Johnny to help explore how to take care of yourself while juggling the day to day challenges of maintaining multiple relationships...

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