533 - How to be Dateable with Julie Krafchick & Yue Xu
Welcome, Julie and Yue!
We’re excited to welcome Julie Krafchick and Yue Xu from the podcast Dateable! Julie and Yue are active daters turned dating insiders, and top influential voices of modern dating, relationships, and connection in the digital world. They’re the authors of How To Be Dateable: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Person and Falling in Love and the co-hosts of the hit podcast Dateable, which has been named one of the top podcasts about modern dating and relationships by the New York Times, The Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and more.
This episode, Julie and Yue answer the following questions about dating:
Can you tell us about your worst date ever and how it led you to learn about dating and teaching it to others?
What was the moment you both realized the traditional dating advice wasn't working? Was there a specific experience that made you say 'something needs to change?’
In the book, you talk about dating archetypes. What are the different archetypes you explore?
Could you share a story of someone who completely transformed their dating life after understanding their archetype?
Can you each share a time when you had to apply your own advice to your dating life? What emotions came up, and how did it turn out?
What's a piece of conventional dating wisdom that you used to believe but now completely disagree with? What changed your mind?
When it comes to dating advice, we want to hear the most surprising piece of dating advice you've ever given that actually worked? Can you walk us through that specific case, but before that, can you tell us the most common advice you need to give?
How do your perspectives on dating sometimes differ from each other? Can you tell us about a time you disagreed on advice for a listener?
Can you give us a preview of something that we could learn from your book and immediately start applying in our dating lives?
Find more from Yue and Julie on social media @dateablepodcast!