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We're closing our Discourse server and moving to Discord

We started a private Discourse server last year to create a more anonymous and facebook-free way for our Patron to connect with each other. Unfortunately, it has proven to be very technical and difficult to maintain and run.

Fortunately, our recently created Discord chat server has been rapidly growing and has provided a fantastic alternative/supplement to the FB group.

"Wait, I thought Discourse and Discord were the same thing!"

If that's the thought you just had, you're not alone. It's confusing and we even mix up the names sometimes.

Long story short, Discourse is like a message board (similar to to the way Facebook works) but we're discontinuing it. Discord is a real-time chat server, which has many different channels for discussing a variety of topics, including relationships, episode discussion, and lots of talk about board games and video games. :-)

If you're interested in checking it out, go to and create an account. It's easy and you don't need to give them anything other than an email address. Once you have an account, go to to join our server.

You won't see much at first because the last thing you'll want to do is to log into your Patreon account and then link your Discord account to your Patreon. That will give you access to all of our private chat rooms!